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Specializing in chronic pain, group therapy, and therapist loss, with the personal experience to match.
I'm Dr. Jeffrey Axelbank, a licensed psychologist based in Highland Park, New Jersey. My practice focuses on two areas where I have both professional expertise and genuine personal experience: helping people recover from chronic pain and other mind-body symptoms, and people who have lost their therapist to death or illness. I know firsthand how isolating both experiences can be and I bring that understanding into every conversation.
For New Jersey residents, I offer individual therapy, in-person group therapy, and professional supervision and consultation. For those outside New Jersey, my work continues through Axelbank Coaching , where the same expertise is available in a coaching format. For organizational consulting, strategic planning, and executive coaching, visit Axelbank Consulting .
Chronic pain and mind-body symptoms such as IBS, FND, and chronic fatigue can be deeply disruptive, often affecting every part of daily life. These conditions involve a complex interaction between the body and brain, where pain and symptoms can sometimes persist even without ongoing physical damage. The good news is that these “false alarm” signals can often be understood and treated, reducing or eliminating symptoms and restoring quality of life.
The loss of a therapist through death or serious illness is a unique and often overlooked form of grief. Beyond losing a trusted professional, you may feel as though you've lost someone who deeply understood your struggles and personal journey. This experience can leave you feeling isolated, confused, and uncertain about where to turn next for guidance and support. If you are navigating the loss of a therapist, you are not alone, and support is available to help you process this difficult transition.
I have been working as a psychologist for over 30 years in both clinical and organizational consulting roles. As a therapist, I specialize in treating people with chronic pain and other mind-body conditions, and group therapy. I also have extensive experience working with survivors of childhood relational trauma and dissociative disorders.
Spurred by my own recent experience, as reported in the NY Times, I also offer support groups for people who have experienced the loss of their therapist.
The Ghost in the Therapy Room
Dr. Axelbank is featured in a New York Times investigation on therapist loss and the grief that follows.
My Therapist Died — A Conversation with Dr. Jeffrey Axelbank
Dr. Axelbank joins the Time and Other Thieves podcast to share his personal story and deepen the conversation around one of therapy's most unspoken experiences.
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September 11, 2026
Relationships often follow repeating patterns, shaped by past experiences and emotional responses, that can leave individuals feeling stuck. These cycles, rooted in early relationships and societal influences, can be challenging to break without self-awareness and professional support. Individual therapy offers a structured way to unpack these dynamics, helping people recognize underlying triggers and learned behaviors to foster healthier, more intentional connections.
September 4, 2026
Explore the intricate relationship between mind and body in chronic conditions like irritable bowel syndrome, functional neurological disorders, and unexplained fatigue. This comprehensive guide delves into the role of neuroplasticity, the impact of stress and trauma, and the benefits of mind-body therapies in managing symptoms. Learn how integrating cognitive-behavioral techniques, somatic practices, and stress management strategies can provide a holistic approach to healing and improving overall well-being.
August 28, 2026
Explore the subtle signs of emotional distress that may indicate the need for professional support. This insightful guide delves into the benefits of therapy, not just as a crisis intervention tool but as a means to foster self-awareness and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Learn how recognizing these indicators can lead to improved emotional balance and resilience.
Whether you are struggling with chronic pain, looking for the right therapy group, navigating the loss of your therapist, or seeking clinical consultation, please reach out to discuss your questions and learn more about how I can help. I personally respond to all inquiries and look forward to connecting with you.
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