When Others Don't Understand What You're Going Through — I Do.

I'm Dr. Jeffrey Axelbank, a licensed psychologist based in Highland Park, New Jersey. My practice focuses on two areas where I have both professional expertise and genuine personal experience: helping people recover from chronic pain and other mind-body symptoms, and people who have lost their therapist to death or illness. I know firsthand how isolating both experiences can be and I bring that understanding into every conversation.

For New Jersey residents, I offer individual therapy, in-person group therapy, and professional supervision and consultation. For those outside New Jersey, my work continues through Axelbank Consulting , where the same expertise is available in a coaching format. For organizational consulting, strategic planning, and executive coaching, visit Axelbank Consulting .

Chronic pain and mind-body symptoms such as IBS, FND, and chronic fatigue can be deeply disruptive, often affecting every part of daily life. These conditions involve a complex interaction between the body and brain, where pain and symptoms can sometimes persist even without ongoing physical damage. The good news is that these “false alarm” signals can often be understood and treated, reducing or eliminating symptoms and restoring quality of life.

The loss of a therapist through death or serious illness is a unique and often overlooked form of grief. Beyond losing a trusted professional, you may feel as though you've lost someone who deeply understood your struggles and personal journey. This experience can leave you feeling isolated, confused, and uncertain about where to turn next for guidance and support. If you are navigating the loss of a therapist, you are not alone, and support is available to help you process this difficult transition.

I have been working as a psychologist for over 30 years in both clinical and organizational consulting roles. As a therapist, I specialize in treating people with chronic pain and other mind-body conditions, and group therapy. I also have extensive experience working with survivors of childhood relational trauma and dissociative disorders.

Spurred by my own recent experience, as reported in the NY Times, I also offer support groups for people who have experienced the loss of their therapist.