When Others Don't Understand What You're Going Through — I Do.
Specializing in chronic pain, group therapy, and therapist loss, with the personal experience to match.
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I'm Dr. Jeffrey Axelbank, a licensed psychologist based in Highland Park, New Jersey. My practice focuses on two areas where I have both professional expertise and genuine personal experience: helping people recover from chronic pain and other mind-body symptoms, and people who have lost their therapist to death or illness. I know firsthand how isolating both experiences can be and I bring that understanding into every conversation.
For New Jersey residents, I offer individual therapy, in-person group therapy, and professional supervision and consultation. For those outside New Jersey, my work continues through Axelbank Coaching , where the same expertise is available in a coaching format. For organizational consulting, strategic planning, and executive coaching, visit Axelbank Consulting .

Chronic pain and mind-body symptoms such as IBS, FND, and chronic fatigue can be deeply disruptive, often affecting every part of daily life. These conditions involve a complex interaction between the body and brain, where pain and symptoms can sometimes persist even without ongoing physical damage. The good news is that these “false alarm” signals can often be understood and treated, reducing or eliminating symptoms and restoring quality of life.

The loss of a therapist through death or serious illness is a unique and often overlooked form of grief. Beyond losing a trusted professional, you may feel as though you've lost someone who deeply understood your struggles and personal journey. This experience can leave you feeling isolated, confused, and uncertain about where to turn next for guidance and support. If you are navigating the loss of a therapist, you are not alone, and support is available to help you process this difficult transition.

I have been working as a psychologist for over 30 years in both clinical and organizational consulting roles. As a therapist, I specialize in treating people with chronic pain and other mind-body conditions, and group therapy. I also have extensive experience working with survivors of childhood relational trauma and dissociative disorders.
Spurred by my own recent experience, as reported in the NY Times, I also offer support groups for people who have experienced the loss of their therapist.






The Ghost in the Therapy Room
Dr. Axelbank is featured in a New York Times investigation on therapist loss and the grief that follows.

My Therapist Died — A Conversation with Dr. Jeffrey Axelbank
Dr. Axelbank joins the Time and Other Thieves podcast to share his personal story and deepen the conversation around one of therapy's most unspoken experiences.
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October 2, 2026
Group therapy in Highland Park, NJ, offers a unique healing environment where individuals facing similar challenges can share experiences, gain insights, and find validation. This supportive space reduces isolation, fosters relational practice, and complements individual therapy by providing a community of peers who understand and support one another. Whether dealing with chronic pain, loss, or other mental health challenges, group therapy can be a powerful addition to one's mental health journey.

September 25, 2026
Living with chronic pain can be isolating, making it hard to connect with others and find effective coping strategies. Group therapy offers a supportive space where individuals share similar experiences, learn practical skills, and gain a sense of community. This article explores how group therapy can help manage chronic pain, improve communication, and provide emotional support, making it a valuable complement to individual care.

September 18, 2026
Workplace conflict can erode trust, hinder productivity, and create a toxic work culture. This article explores the hidden costs of unresolved workplace conflict, such as decreased productivity, low morale, and high turnover rates. It delves into the root causes of workplace conflict, including poor communication, differing values, and unclear roles. The article also highlights the role of organizational consulting in conflict resolution, offering structured and objective ways to diagnose and resolve workplace conflict. By identifying root causes, clarifying expectations, and fostering open communication, consulting services can bridge divides and create a more cohesive work environment.

Whether you are struggling with chronic pain, looking for the right therapy group, navigating the loss of your therapist, or seeking clinical consultation, please reach out to discuss your questions and learn more about how I can help. I personally respond to all inquiries and look forward to connecting with you.
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